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The Break-Up Diet
Welcome to The Break Up Diet—your weekly dose of self-improvement, glow-ups, and everything breakups (yes, not just the romantic ones). Hosted by Yasmin and Ilma, we’re your no-BS besties here to guide you through every type of breakup—whether it’s from a person, a toxic cycle, or even your old self.
We’re flipping the breakup narrative.
No more heartbreak—just transformation. No more setbacks—only glow-ups. Breakups are the ultimate opportunity to level up, and we’re here to help you do exactly that. Whether it's navigating friendships, situationships, or even kicking bad habits (we see you, vaping!), we’ve got the raw, real talk to help you rebuild and thrive.
Grab your seat, darlings—this is where the best version of YOU begins.
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The Break-Up Diet
Signs He’s Not That Into You (And You’re About to Get Dumped)
The slow fade might be one of the most painful ways to end a relationship - that gradual withdrawing where your partner becomes increasingly distant, leaving you wondering what you did wrong. On this raw and honest episode, we tackle this common but rarely discussed breakup method that leaves so many of us confused and heartbroken.
We break down exactly what a slow fade looks like and how to recognize when it's happening to you. Those vague "don't know" texts when you ask about plans? The decreasing intimacy? The feeling that something's off but you can't quite put your finger on it? Those aren't just in your head - they're classic signs someone's trying to exit without having the difficult conversation.
Why do people choose this cowardly approach instead of ripping off the band-aid? We explore the psychology behind slow fading, from fear of confrontation to uncertainty about their own feelings. Some people slow fade because they want to keep their options open or they're waiting for you to do the breaking up. Whatever the reason, we discuss how to protect your dignity when someone starts pulling away.
The most liberating realization? When someone shows you they want to leave, let them go. Fighting for someone who's already emotionally checked out only prolongs your pain. We share personal experiences with slow fades, ghosting, and abrupt breakups to help you navigate these painful transitions with grace, self-respect, and the knowledge that yes, it really does get better.
Listen now to arm yourself with the emotional intelligence to recognize a slow fade, the courage to address it directly, and the wisdom to know when it's time to say "boy bye" and focus on your own happiness.
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Let's go. Welcome to the breakup dive, to another episode with Yaz and Ilms where we talk all things breakup.
Ilmz:Yeah. So I have a question for you, ilma Go on. Would you rather get broken up with by someone you know, giving you lots of like mixed signals, maybe taking a long time to kind of get to the decision? Or would you prefer to just like get ghosted or send one line being like I can't do this anymore?
Yaz:I think I would prefer a brutal breakup whereas just like they tell you how it is, as opposed to them stringing you along pointlessly buckle up, bitches.
Ilmz:It's gonna get bumpy. This is the breakup diet. At least you just ripped the band-aid off. You know it sucks, but then it's done. You're not just like wasting your time.
Yaz:I've been slow, faded before and to me it just made me feel like shit, because I can feel that they weren't into me, but then at the same time I'd be like, okay, if they weren't into me they would have just ripped off the band-aid. Why are they still stringing me along, like maybe they still love me?
Ilmz:like, yeah, I think you don't know, and you kind of like latch onto anything that's a little bit good and you're like, oh, they, they were gonna dump me. They wouldn't be, I don't know, buying me flowers or telling me I look pretty.
Ilmz:If they were gonna dump me, they wouldn't be here at my divorce party yeah, oh, it's giving goosebumps, yeah yeah yeah, I think, yeah, I think slow fading is one of the worst ways, honestly, but it's such a common way. I feel like everyone has kind of experienced it to a degree yeah, because you could get slow faded even if you were just in a situationship because but like a very early situations 100 because you just, like you know, keep stringing them along and then then it's nothing cold so what? Is slow fading to you Like. How would you?
Yaz:describe it. It's when the other person's like withdrawing themselves away from the relationship. And the thing with slow fading I've just realized it can happen anywhere. It can happen with your jobs. They can put you in a performance improvement plan. That is basically a slow fade to firing you.
Ilmz:Yeah, but what if you do improve?
Yaz:a lot, then they don't fight you. No, no, no really so?
Ilmz:do you know then, I've never obviously had.
Yaz:Yeah. So from personal experiences, I was put on the performance improvement plan and that is basically a hr code for look, we're about to fire you, but we'd rather you do the move. Yeah, savage, very savage. So slow fade, you gotta look up. Slow fade, you gotta look out for in the real world.
Ilmz:Yeah, I think it's when you just go cold but you take a long time so you might leave like little breadcrumbs it's the bread crumbing thing. So you shoot them a text here and there but you don't really. But then in a relationship like if I got slow, faded right now, it would be like my partner just distancing I guess oh my god, how much distancing it's long distance as it is even more distance it wouldn't be fun no, it would mess with your head because it's like okay, am I coming up to see you?
Ilmz:I don't think we could have any more distance.
Yaz:No no, he's better than that, for sure. Yeah, I think he would just tell me.
Ilmz:Yeah, I think, I think I would get a band-aid, not the, not the band-aid, it's the other one yeah, rip off the band-aid yeah, he would. Yeah, have you ever been slow faded? Yeah, I did the one time. Mm-hmm, was it bad. Well, yeah, well, how did it make you feel like give me some?
Yaz:details. Well, cuz I said earlier, I got slow, faded, and then he showed up to my divorce party only to dump me two days later. You might keep talking about this all the time, but it's just, it covers so many different types of breakups in that one breakup. Yeah, I get you. It made me feel really insecure because I would ask him like, hey, when are we hanging out next? And he'd be like don't know, because normally, like when you hang out with your partner, you know when you're going to see them next.
Ilmz:Yeah, yeah.
Yaz:Messes with your head Like just that don't know text is Before that. Would he text you like more? Yeah, we would call each other every night before we go to sleep. Then they would like turn to nothing and because I was in the mission to always be the cool girlfriend, I kind of just let it happen.
Ilmz:Oh no. And then I bet you were left even more confused as to like what point in your relationship made him just drop you, yeah, or do you think he was like trying to figure out his feelings? So he was doing that because he wasn't sure?
Yaz:no, I'm pretty sure he was just cheating on me oh sorry, that's not nice um you suck. Yeah, you can do everything. You can cheat and slow fade.
Ilmz:It's a great combination if you're a shit person the sun would say it's the best combination ever genuinely slow, fade, cheat it on the side.
Yaz:You know easy, have everything, you can have the cake but what would be like?
Ilmz:how are people gonna know if they're just getting cheated on or being slow faded? Is there any behaviors that people could, you could notice on someone to be like, oh my god, I think he's, you know, trying to slow fade out of this relationship?
Yaz:when they're just not making that effort to hang out with you or the same routine you guys used to have. It's just not there anymore. So nightly calls are over, the weekend hangouts are just not there. He's not inviting you out to places anymore.
Ilmz:Yeah, the effort's gone and like it's gone and like the. Yeah, the interactions are just smaller, like less hugs, maybe less um yeah, less intimacy, for sure yeah, less like text, but like even the quality of the text Is shit. Yeah, so you're saying I don't know like that before. He'd be like, oh, maybe I can't do this day, but I can do this day, yeah, yeah.
Yaz:Could you imagine receiving a don't know text from your boyfriend? Ew, that's giving Like it made me feel like I got punched in the throat or something. It was really hurtful. Oh, Like it made me feel like I got punched in the throat or something.
Ilmz:It was really hurtful. That is bad If they don't also talk about future things, because if they're like avoiding the future, they're avoiding seeing you, they're not putting in the effort they're I don't know. You can kind of pick up on a vibe. I think, yeah, why do you think people do it? Well, there's loads of reasons, but like, like, I feel like people do it if they're not sure, so they're not sure on you, or if they want to be with you. So, like the whole relationship, I feel like they'd also do it if they, I don't know, felt bad to break up with you because it's like confrontation is kind of no one likes. Doing it like, let's be honest, it's awkward it's awkward.
Yaz:Yeah, I think if they're back to the cheating thing, if they're a shit person, they want to have all the options they want you they want you and you and you, yeah, they, yeah.
Ilmz:They literally want to have everyone and they don't want to close any door exactly, and but they don't want to be held accountable, so yeah, and they can still get the cuddles and stuff you know and the when they're hung over. They get a nice girlfriend that, like you know, cleans up with them or cooks for them or something yeah, take advantage of basically everyone around them.
Ilmz:Yeah, without having to give away too much yeah rough, but do you think there's ever a nice way or like people are ever doing it? You know, not in this mean mean way we're saying Because, no, because, think about it. Imagine I'm not doing this, but imagine I wasn't sure on my boyfriend, right, and I wasn't sure, but I didn't want to let go because he is such a nice guy. He is like all these qualities that I want, but there was something that I didn't. Such a nice guy, he is like all these qualities that I want, but there was something that I didn't. I probably wouldn't do a slow fade, but like I would be, you know, taking a step back to try to analyze if I'm feel better alone or not so what's the difference between stepping back and a slow fade?
Ilmz:I think. I think it's the same thing as because you're obviously stepping back for a reason, but I would say like if I was to do it, it wasn't mean. If somebody else is to do this, it's so mean yeah, it's done to me.
Yaz:It's mean and it's wrong. If it's me, it's like I'm just a girl trying to figure out my shit yeah, if it's man, it's like you're greedy yeah we can't be held accountable?
Ilmz:no, but you. But you know what I mean. Like I feel like, although some people might not have malintent, like doing it because they think it might be nice, so you know, they're trying not to hurt the person as much by not breaking up with them. It sometimes hurts more because you're just like stringing them along and they also don't get a good part of you. They get like the, the mixed emotions.
Yaz:They're not getting all the like nice, genuine connections not there anymore and it's so unfair to them because you're still there but you're not giving them the connection that you guys originally kind of built. It's not fair to the other person. It's really mean. Yeah, it is, but what would you do if you were in that situation, if I was getting slow faded or if I'm the slow fader, god, I guess in some instances I have been the slow fader, um, where I just did not have the courage to speak my voice, but it was never with like a bad intention you know what I mean, that you're saying it's not with bad intention, but for them it is.
Ilmz:Yeah, yeah, it's never nice getting broken up with in any way.
Yaz:To be fair is not nice it's not nice, but I think in terms of ethics, ethically, it's better to just rip off the band-aid, tell it how it is, as opposed to stringing someone along unfairly yeah, but then how do you know after? So you rip off the band-aid and then you're like shit, I fucked up then you just need to own up to it, as opposed to just causing oh, it's hard do you think that people are just lazy if they slow fade like, are they just a lazy person?
Ilmz:that's why they do it.
Yaz:Maybe, and definitely the fact that they're a coward.
Ilmz:Yeah, but you just said you slow faded somebody, so you're a coward.
Yaz:Yeah, well, obviously I'm a coward for that. I'm not a good person for doing that.
Ilmz:Like I'm not saying I am yeah, okay, I get you. But I don't know. I don't think they're always necessarily lazy, because I feel like it could be more effort for them that's true to be forced in a relationship they don't want to be in. Yeah, you know, they're forced to have all this chat. So, you know, even give the breadcrumbs like that's a lot, it probably requires more brain thought than just dumping them oh 100.
Yaz:I think. Yeah, I think it just boils down to the fact that maybe they just lack the courage to be confrontational. Yeah, it's scary. To dump someone is scary, I would imagine. Yeah, have you ever?
Ilmz:dumped someone.
Yaz:No, oh, you don't, I prefer being dumped yeah, I prefer being dumped too. I can't imagine like having that conversation, practicing it in your head, you see.
Ilmz:But this is why I think people slow fade, so that the other person dumps yes, you know they kind of they're detaching, and then they're detaching, they're detaching, it's becoming quite obvious.
Yaz:And then the other person you know pulls the plug.
Ilmz:Yeah, so they don't have to do the breakup why is it so hard to say that you don't want to be with somebody if you don't think they're right? Because obviously they've come to a conclusion in their head. You know if you're going to break up or something, or you have a reason, so why can't you just bring that forward straight away?
Yaz:I think they're probably deep down, 100% not sure, or they're 100% not ready to be alone. I think that's why a lot of people just stay in relationships that don't really benefit them or relationships with people that they don't really like, because it's just easier to be with them, to be alone, because that's how scared of being alone they are.
Ilmz:I've seen that happen so many times, to be honest, even I am like I would be scared to be alone, you know, if we broke up. It's a big change, because you're not, you don't have that massive support system anymore yeah, and it's also you just like lose somebody that you always talk to or rely on or that anything, so like it's scary, it definitely is scary.
Yaz:Yeah, no, it is really scary. It's such a shock to the system because you're like, oh, what now? Yeah, say, if you're living with your partner, what would a slow fade be then?
Yaz:they just don't come home a lot. Oh shit, sorry. Oh, my god. No, I've kind of seen this happen at work, where men at my job they just not go home. They'd book hotels for whenever there's like a work event, because it's just easier for them to like be in the city than to go back to surrey or some shit yeah, but that might be legit.
Ilmz:No, that might be legit, like they might be. Okay. Then bring the wife to town, yeah, but yeah, to be fair, then why don't they bring the wife then? Exactly, but maybe they have kids get a babysitter.
Yaz:If you can afford a hotel, you can afford a babysitter you make a point.
Ilmz:They obviously maybe they just want a night alone. To be honest, when I'm older I might want to lie alone too. No like with a man sleeping diagonally across the bed or snoring or some shit like no thanks. They might be like I need a, I need a break. Maybe she snores, yeah fair.
Yaz:But what would you say between a committed relationship and a situationship? What would be the similar um signs?
Ilmz:so a situationship if you're slow, fading, you're just dating somebody who's like an avoidant and like, as in, they're just avoiding, and then they might just like booty, call you, I would imagine. Or you know they're just avoiding and then they might just like booty, call you, I would imagine. Or you know, they're just like giving you little breadcrumbs to hang on to in a situation. Shit, you're not. It's kind of the. The whole essence of a situation ship is a slow fade.
Ilmz:Yeah, yeah, like you know, they just they string you along but they don't really care. The effort isn't really there, you know, but they want you. They string you along, but they don't really care. If it isn't really there, you know, but they want you there because you know they might want hot chocolate and winter wonderland, don't know. Yeah, yeah, they're not that interested. Or if they are, they're keeping their options open and they're looking elsewhere. But as a relationship it depends if you live together, like if you live together or you're really close and you're always together, then I would just there'd be like a lack of intimacy. So, yeah, all the behaviors would kind of be the same, just maybe more obvious in your in a relationship because you're that much closer.
Yaz:Definitely, because in situationships it's like okay, we will really never reach others to begin with or really know that person a lot of the time, yeah, it's like two early days for you to know, but some people are in situationships for like years, like nine years and stuff god forbid like I'd be hungry you know all those bed crumbs I'd be like where's my cake?
Yaz:surely at some point it's like, okay, maybe I should probably see a therapist and like develop some standards, surely yeah. But then again I guess the psychological effects it wraps you in yeah, how would you handle it now?
Ilmz:like if you had you know somebody slow faded, they got away from your relationship and they just kind of went cold I think after being double therapized, I would definitely just ask them look, things have been a bit distant.
Yaz:Is everything okay? If he says it's not fine. If he doesn't reply, I'm just gonna take it as a sign to like do my own exit. I don't need to wait for him to dump me this time so then you slow fade him?
Ilmz:no, I think, not even I just leave.
Yaz:Yeah, yeah, I tell him. Okay, look, clearly something's not like right, as otherwise he would have said something wish you all the best. Seriously, I don't have time. You would say wish you all the best?
Ilmz:probably no. I would be like I would be like, okay, cool, thanks for the reply, and then that would be it. I don't wish you all the best. Probably no. I would be like I would be like, okay, cool, thanks for the reply, and then that would be it. I don't wish you all the best. I don't, but you just say it out of courtesy no, there is no courtesy stuff that I'm normally the nice one.
Yaz:But no, I don't even mean that a nice way, I just mean it in like a formal, like a hr way you know, what's it called when they send you the hr the performance improvement plan?
Ilmz:send him a performance improvement plan, basically because, say, you enter into another relationship after, would you then be scared that, like every time he was a little bit distant or didn't, you know, give you a great text just because he was busy, but actually busy would you then be like jumping on that and being like, oh my god no, because obviously with therapy I've learned not to jump to conclusions too easily, like I think I'll be a bit more patient, but also a bit more like I will hold my ground up.
Yaz:Yeah, yeah, I'm excited to see what happens when I actually date someone.
Ilmz:I know good luck, yeah, good luck they're. They're getting a strong woman.
Yaz:I know they're going to hate me because I'm going to be like speaking my mind.
Ilmz:No, that's great, because I know we're talking about a very specific type of dumping right now yeah. In the ideal world You're dating. I'm going to give you a situation. Go on, okay. So you're in a relationship with this guy three years. He's your ride or die. You wake up one morning and he's like very flustered and he's like by the sink and he's like I just can't do this.
Yaz:Shit and completely throw me off.
Ilmz:Yeah, and maybe he was having the slow fade without showing you any of the behaviors, so for him it's not like an abrupt breakup, but for you it is. Yeah.
Yaz:I don't know. That's very scary. Like an abrupt breakup is scary, no matter how much therapy you've had.
Ilmz:Yeah, but at the start of this we were saying that it's better to have an abrupt one over a oh yeah, I'm not saying like better for worse.
Yaz:It's still scary, but I think I would definitely prefer that. But just think about the questions. Oh yeah, as long as he like gives me the space to like talk about it as opposed to just like okay, I'm done, I'm going, no, no no, I'm done, I'm going.
Ilmz:is the? Thing, I actually I'm going to take back everything I've said. I think it's better to have a slow fade. At least you have something to latch on to oh fuck that.
Ilmz:No, as in like as to why, like at least you could probably work it out, whereas like if it's just like bang, you're just left in the cold and the unknowing would kill you not actually kill you, but like that would be so hard. Like imagine they're just done and then you're just there like where did I even go wrong? How can I even improve that for the next time?
Yaz:But then there's me thinking okay, if he didn't respect me enough to give me a reason while he dumped me, then why should I give him respect in regards to having space in my mind about it? Like why should I give him all this like real estate? In my brain Like I actually really don't need to know if I've been that massively disrespected. I don't need to like go to him for a closure, I don't, it's good, no, like seriously, I'm glad that would be you.
Ilmz:I would definitely need something. I would for what, though? Not for what. I would just need it to make peace in my own mind. But can you not make?
Yaz:that peace within yourself by accepting the reality. I think that's so much easier and better for you.
Ilmz:I mean I could probably accept the reality, but to make peace within myself. I'm not going to lie, I would be thinking about it for way longer probably than if I had a conversation and I still had more questions, I would be dwelling on that for probably like years, after realistically running over all situations as to why so, with the damages of a slow fade, what are we doing to preserve our energy and maintain our standards and not crumble?
Ilmz:yeah, it's easy to crumble because, yeah, it's hurtful, like you also wait, you feel like you waste time, you don't really know why, you don't know why it was such a hard decision. And then it feels such a hard decision, a decision like why aren't they with you, almost you know, if it's so hard to come to that you kind of latch on to feeling like I am, I'm good enough, but I'll change, you know you're like I'll fix it.
Yaz:Let me fix this. Yeah, so how do we handle it in a more classy, maintaining our standards kind of way? You just have to walk away. Honestly, that's the thing. You just have to.
Ilmz:Let them go yeah, you just have to be like, okay, cool well you're missing out yeah, you're missing out, and they might, you know, not realize that at the start, but they are. And when they realize how good of a person you are and what you would have done for them, then they're gonna be like, oh god. But it's hard to come to terms with that. You either do that or you go for their best friend as one or the other.
Yaz:The best friend's always a fun option, but I think it is just one of those things if they want to walk away let them.
Ilmz:Yeah, you can't take it on board too much. You've got to be like okay, it is what it is. They're mistaken. I'm just going to take it.
Yaz:Exactly Sometimes in life. You just have to take the L and you gotta like hold your head high and think, okay, one person leaving is space for 10, probably hotter, richer options.
Ilmz:Yeah, and also I was just thinking that if they're slow fading you, they're like they've, they've thought about it so much. And that point of it is actually so extremely hurtful, because it's probably not just one thing that they didn't like. You know, it wasn't a quick like I'm breaking up with you. You like someone's photo. It's like they've thought about it so much, maybe multiple reasons they've come up with. They mulled over it that I'm like all right, if you really think that that, then okay, like, why would you want to fight for someone who doesn't like you?
Ilmz:yeah, so maybe slow fading is actually one of the better ways to be broken up with.
Yaz:Actually yeah, it can be super helpful because you you're just seeing someone go progressively shit and you realize, okay, I know what I am deserving of and it's not that. So yeah, but at the end of the day, one of the most liberating feelings in life is that you can't control other people's behavior. If they want to do what they want to do, let them and just move on.
Ilmz:Do you think you can get back with somebody after you have a slow fade?
Yaz:probably, but there has to be like, actual, like conversation. You can't slow, fade your way back into a relationship.
Ilmz:They're like yeah, it's like a wave. You know they're like oh, actually changed my mind. I'm going back. Yeah, because you do change. That's the thing. Like people do change so much over the years that maybe at one point you're not working.
Yaz:Definitely and I feel like no two breakups are the same Like one relationship. If they slow, fade, they can get back together. Another relationship might not?
Ilmz:You have a breakup once with them. The next time does it hurt as much?
Yaz:Oh my God, I don't know.
Ilmz:I think it hurts less if you didn't expect the first one or something, because you're like that's when your heart crumbles, so your feelings going into it the next time are probably a bit different, a bit more guarded, because nothing is as bad as the first breakup.
Yaz:Yeah, nothing will ever be as bad. I, I'm telling you, oh my, God, I've had semi.
Ilmz:Look, I've had a semi and that was pretty fucking bad. I'm not going to lie Like I was distraught for three days, distraught.
Yaz:I promise you, if, god forbid, there's another breakup, it will never be as bad as even that semi. I'm being so serious Because I feel like you've been through that motion of oh, I feel like I've lost my world Once you've gone through it. Once it does get a bit better.
Ilmz:Breakups do get better, breakups get easier every time.
Yaz:No, they really do. My flatmate was saying that because when I got dumped last year I cried, I think, 20 days straight, and I mean not like girly sobs, like you know, those like it's so so so ugly.
Yaz:Yeah, like those tears where you feel like you're crying so hard that you might transform into a werewolf, like that's how much like body, like that's just how much physically it's affecting you yeah, I was like that for 20 days and my friend, her brother, her mother, because they all kind of like saw it happen and they were just like, oh honey, gets better, the next breakup's not gonna be as bad you're like brilliant, sign me up I want more of this is a weird thing, a breakup, though.
Ilmz:Like I would call my mom because she wasn't here and I would just be like crying on the phone, my mom couldn't even say anything, like she'd say it's okay, and I'd be like, and then, like she would say something like yes, do you like, do you not want to go see someone? I want to see him. Oh yes, mine wasn't even that bad like as in, it was only a week top, well, good news is it'll be fine, it'll be better next time.
Yaz:The next time and you won't transform into a werewolf.
Ilmz:What are the other types of breakups?
Yaz:A divorce yeah, but like Legally unbinding, yeah, but that's not a type, is it? There's um, that's like there's a ghosting. I think ghosting breakups is common.
Ilmz:You could have a nice breakup, yeah, like a mutual breakup, like you're both like we ain't right?
Yaz:No, yeah, because sometimes when breakup yeah, like a mutual breakup, like you're both like we ain't right, no, yeah, because sometimes, when you fought for so long, you both jump to the same conclusion, and that can be really nice, do you?
Ilmz:think anybody's on the same conclusion. I don't think so.
Yaz:Actually, now that I think about it, one of my my ex-husband's friend. He was divorced and he's always stayed in touch with his ex-wife which I think is like weird but they both like jumped to that conclusion that, look, this is just not gonna work. Let's just like help each other in this transition phase. And that's when I met them, like when they were kind of maybe, maybe that's the not a nice way.
Ilmz:I just don't think I could stay friends with an ex like I don't care whether you've seen me naked. I can't yeah, I mean my head didn't go there, but like it would just be like yeah, like we've done so many intimate things together, now we're just gonna be like mates no, I just don't. Yeah, I don't think you can be mates. It's a bit weird, isn't it? Yeah, sorry to anybody that is, but I mean, teach us actually.
Yaz:Yeah, come to the pod yeah, come to the pod.
Ilmz:Yeah, I think actually slow fade, terrible if you're having it done to you, genius, genius if it's not you, because you can have your cake and eat it too, but just like all breakups, if someone doesn't want to be with you, let them.
Yaz:Yeah, that is like their call to make. Unfortunately, that is just life.
Ilmz:Yeah, and you also. You got to remember that it's not a you thing a lot of the time. I mean, sometimes it's a you thing, but sometimes it's like they, and if it's a you thing, fantastic, learn from it.
Yaz:Learn how to be a better person from that. Yeah, if they tell you yeah, or talk to a therapist. A therapist could probably pinpoint yeah, okay, talk to a therapist.
Ilmz:Talk to your friends.
Yaz:Chat GVT. Oh yeah, chat GVT. If someone is exiting their way out of your life, see it as a blessing for bigger and better opportunities. Yeah, it could even mean like a redirection in Korea. It could be maybe a redirection relationship. If not, it's not a bad thing.
Ilmz:Boy bye.
Yaz:That's always how it is. Boy bye, I'm about to make this money.
Ilmz:Yeah, and he's going to look at this, like, look at you and be like shit, I really lost somebody. Great. And if he doesn't, I actually really don't care, and if he doesn't, I hope he gets. Are you going to ask no, no, and if he doesn't, I hope he gets unemployed. I hope he gets pinched in the arms yeah, if he doesn't, I hope he goes to jail.
Yaz:I don't know something like prison prison for dumping me. Yeah, lock him up, yeah lock him up.
